I'm officially surrounded by preggos.
There's my best friend, a good friend's best friend, and two girls in my class.
One of these girls I thought was crazy at first--or just plain mean...she was really aggressive and would turn everything I said into some insenuation that she was fat. No, it's true...
Me: Oh, you're taking Zumba classes? How fun!
Her: Yeah, I'm just not going to tell my instructor.
Me: Not...tell them...what?
Her: That I'm pregnant.
Me: -looking at her stomach- Ohhh!
Her: What? Does it make sense now?
Me: What?
Her: That I'm FAT.
Me: Oh...that's not what-no, no, no, I didn't think...I mean, you're pregnant so of course you're bigger....
Other girl: So...Zumba's fun...
Me: How far along are you?
Her: 36 weeks...why, do I LOOK it?
Me: I...I have no idea, I have no way to reference that. I'm going to go...
However, from the next class on, she was super friendly.
Well, God told me to befriend her.
I was all, "nuh-uh God, nooo thanks".
But He's relentless and insists on us being friends.
She's really very nice, and I have gotten to know her better. Her life is difficult and she's having a hard time with everything.
The other day, God told me to call he or take her out, but I ignored Him. This really does make me feel sad.
Well, today she was late to class because her tires popped on the freeway. She was crying and wheezing from asthma and I had no idea what to do (I'm like a man around crying girls). But we manage to cheer her up, and we talk about her baby shower. Well, a bit ago she calls and asks if I can help with her shower because her other friend bailed on her.
Yes, God, I hear You...
So, I said yes.
She started crying again because she didn't expect me to say yes and she was really happy and relieved.
Please pray for her and for me. This whole thing makes me nervous, because I don't want to let her or God down. But I'll do my best.